Slow and Steady Wins the Race
No guy ever wants to be called the nice guy, right? It’s become this horrible attribute associated with dating. You always hear the phrase “nice guys finish last” which I’m starting think has some truth. I never really knew what made a guy NG as oppose to just being nice, until recently. For me, NG's normally don't even make it to the first date. They're too busy asking to hang out, instead of making an actual date. Or they're texting just to see how I liked a movie. However,
Men Are Like Dessert
So I’m sitting here thinking about a conversation I had with a patient earlier today. We always have conversations about relationships. He’s a big flirt, but the nicest guy you’ll ever meet. So he asks me about my love life. At his last appointment I had just been ghosted by Josh. So I’m telling him the latest scoop, what’s new. I tell him I don’t like talking about my feelings, I’m unemotional and I’m pretty much an asshole. Then all of a sudden he asks if I wanted to get ma
Emotionally Constipated
I wasn’t planning on writing today…but I felt the urge and here were are. Why is it so hard to open up; to be emotionally available and honest with another person? I never realized I had a problem. I always considered myself as the cool girl, especially when dating. Guys don’t want girls who are emotional and are constantly talking about their feelings….right? WRONG. When I was growing up, my dad was a crier. Not like a tear, but full blown sobbing and at everything. I could
