Secrets of the Single Girl

"I don't need a prince to save me. I need a king to help me take over the world."

~ Allison Eckhart



I believe you must bring your whole self to the table if you want to thrive in today’s crazy world; your personality, your sense of humor, and most importantly, your heart. All of these elements brought me to this moment, sharing my story with you. For 10 years I've gone through ups and downs with relationships, friendships and everything in between. I invite you to follow along in my journey of self-love, dating in Los Angeles, and hanging out with my best friends, while looking for "the one." And don't worry, this blog will have a lot of pizza, tequila and bad decisions ;)


July 18, 2018

Hey guys…Remember Me?

I know it’s been awhile, which I hate. But honestly, I haven’t really felt like writing. Life happens, things get in the way, work is overwhelming and all of a sudden, the month has gone by in a blink of an eye.  

To be honest, I’ve been having a hard time. It seems like as soon as I turned 30, my life flipped upside down. Yes, I kn...

June 20, 2018

Why is it that when someone finally does something nice for us, it negates all the shit they did previously?

A friend of mine was telling about her latest man friend. He was very attractive, nice and polite. However, he was a horrible texter and never spent any weekends with her. She still hasn’t met his friends and he rarely plans things in advance. Bu...

June 12, 2018

Dear Baby A,

You did it. You made it to 30.  I know you thought this day would never come, but luckily here we are. *Whew* I wanted to write you a letter, my teenage self, to give you peace of mind. Life hasn’t always been easy but damn, it was worth it. Here’s a bit of advice from me to…me

You cannot cut off your curls. I know you want straight hair des...

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About Me

I guess this is where I write about myself...a girl's favorite thing, right? I like long walks on the beach, tequila and puppies. Now this is sounding like a dating profile.

Here we go. I'm 29 years old and I love my life. I moved to Los Angeles from Atlanta in 2013 and I've never looked back. My parents divorced when I was 16, which is also the year I graduated high school. I currently manage a dental office in Beverly Hills and I absolutely love it.

I started this blog because of a broken heart...crazy, right? After reading a million self help books and blogs I realized that I wasn't alone. So this is my journey to find "the one", with help from my best friends <3


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