So I recently posted a photo on Instagram of a man asking me to go for a drink. Now I’ve never shied away from banter or a heated discussion, however someone thought it clever to tell me that I shouldn’t turn down the guy because I constantly complain about not getting a date.
I was reading his comment and literally spat out my water. Is that what men really think this blog is?? Just to bash them? I can’t even begin to fathom that someone I know would say this to me, let alone on a public forum.
First off, I have never once complained because I couldn’t date. In fact, I don’t think I’ve had an issue getting a date within the past 12 months. Not to toot my own horn, but it’s not hard for me to get dates. Actually, I don’t think it’s hard for any woman to get a date. Now finding a quality man….that’s another story.
Second off, the post was meant to be funny. To show my silly, yet feisty side. I didn’t post the rest of the conversation because no one really gives a fuck. I didn’t feel the need to post the part of the conversation where this man asked what size bra I wear or if I’m groomed. And yes, that really happened.
And lastly, I LOVE MEN. I love *almost* everything about men. Why would I bash them? This whole blog has basically been an instruction booklet on how to win with women! If I wanted to sabotage men I would let them keep doing what they’re doing.
Men who like to put down women have more issues than Cosmo. That negativity and belittlement has no place on my feed, in my mailbox or on my wall. If you want to have an adult discussion about something, then bring it on. If you have something to debate, then I'm game. But if you're just looking to get a rise out of me...keep it movin.
If you don’t like what I write, then don’t fucking read it. If you don’t like what I post on Instagram, then scroll past. And if you don’t like what I say in my snapchats, then unfollow me. I'm sure you can at least find that one, small magic button.